The Proposal

by Jonathan Hirabayashi

“…a marriage between them was improbable before evacuation as there was resistance from both sets of parents.”

Bus lists for removal from Irvington to Tanforan; Hirabayashi and Mitsuyoshi families listed
Bus lists for removal from Irvington to Tanforan, CA (cropped; highlights added). Photo by Dorothea Lange. National Archives. Photo #537588.

When bus no. 2 left Irvington, CA on May 9, 1942, my parents, Toby and Shizu, were not an “item.” They were parts of the Hirabayashi and the Mitsuyoshi families. My dad once related to me that a marriage between them was improbable before evacuation as there was resistance from both sets of parents. The Hirabayashi family was Buddhist and the Mitsuyoshi family was Christian. Furthermore, there was an education disparity as my dad was a high school graduate constrained by family responsibilities as the eldest son on a farm while mom was a college graduate, teaching at a private school in nearby Los Gatos.

Nevertheless, about a month prior to evacuation, my dad purchased a wedding ring and put it in his pocket with the hope that the tumultuous times might shape a “yes” to his proposal of marriage.

Shizu Mitsuyoshi, Joe and Jean Yoshino, arriving at Tanforan in 1942.
Mess hall line at Tanforan. Shizu Mitsuyoshi (Jonathan’s mother) is in the center, in a white coat. Photo by Dorothea Lange. National Archives. Photo #537932.

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