At Tanforan Assembly Center in California, my dad proposed to my mom. The wedding date was August 16, 1942. I believe this was the first wedding at Tanforan.
I know of three wedding details: My mother’s wedding dress was furnished by Mary Louise Zingham, who was a good friend, former classmate, and fellow Honor Society member at San Jose State. Size-wise, she was a body double for my mom, so she was able to try on dresses and select one.
The second detail? The honeymoon consisted of being driven around the horse track—twice—in a car.
And lastly, their honeymoon suite was a horse stall. My father’s well-meaning older sister, Masako, scrubbed out the stall with a brush and hot soapy water. Unfortunately, the damp wood and horse manure made the stall smell really bad. My parents were able to joke about this years later. I thought it was funny, too, when I first heard the story. Nowadays, when I think about it, I get mad and sad at the same time.
About the contributor: Jonathan was born in 1946 in American Fork, UT. His parents, Toby and Sugar, farmed and later opened a produce store near Pleasant Grove before returning to the San Francisco Bay Area in 1956. Jon graduated from UC Davis, served in the Army, and got an art degree from Cal State Hayward. He worked as a graphic designer at the Oakland Museum before establishing his own business as an exhibit designer and fabricator. He volunteers as the Topaz Stories Project’s exhibit designer and lives with his wife, Susan Kai, in Oakland, CA.
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